A crucial truth for any life coach is that you can’t please everyone, and frankly, not everyone matters. As you guide clients, you will encounter diverse personalities, expectations, and goals. Some clients will embrace your methods and make incredible progress, while others may resist the process or not be ready to do the work. It’s tempting to tailor your approach to satisfy every person who walks through your door, but this is a path to burnout. It's best to invest your energy, a valuable resource, in individuals committed to their growth, who trust your expertise, and who are prepared to do the hard work. These are the people who truly matter to your practice and whose success will be the most rewarding.
Your role as a life coach is to offer a consistent, authentic, and powerful framework for change. This means standing firm in your coaching philosophy, even when a client pushes back or a prospective client doesn't resonate with your style. Your clarity and integrity will attract people who will work with you. Focusing on those who align with your mission and methods allows you to create a more impactful and fulfilling coaching experience for everyone involved. This isn't about being selective; it's about being effective. You shouldn't try to be a one-size-fits-all solution. Instead, you are a catalyst for transformation for the people who are ready and willing to be transformed.
Have a wonderful week.
Luc Dermul
CEO & Founder of The Coach Valley & Life Coach