This quote is a powerful reminder for life coaches that true accountability encompasses both failure and success. It’s easy to question your methods, advice, and overall effectiveness when faced with client setbacks. This kind of self-reflection is essential for growth, but it’s only one side of the coin. Just as you guide a client through their “fuck-ups”, you are equally a partner in their triumphs. When a client lands a new job, starts a business, or finally achieves a long-held personal goal, that win directly results from the work you’ve done together. Recognizing your role in those victories isn’t about ego; it’s about validating your value and the effectiveness of your coaching.
Failing to celebrate these wins is a missed opportunity for both you and your client. When you acknowledge and celebrate your shared successes, you reinforce a positive feedback loop. You are showing your client that their hard work, combined with your guidance, leads to tangible results. This builds their confidence and reinforces the value of the coaching process itself. For you, celebrating these wins provides the motivation and proof of concept you need to continue your work with passion and purpose. By owning both the challenges and the celebrations, you create a more complete and authentic coaching relationship that is built on mutual respect and shared success.
Have a wonderful week.
Luc Dermul
CEO & Founder of The Coach Valley & Life Coach